What is pure love?

I woke up this morning, had my subuh prayer, and after reading the Al-Quran, i sat on the praying mattress and started thinking of the past, thinking of the present, and thinking of the future. thinking of the life im living. suddenly this thought came across my mind. "Why do people bother to fall in love when loving Allah is enough?" and "Why do Allah strongly recommended us to get married and even offered better rewards/pahala to those married man?". I do believe He has reasons for that, but it seemed all blur to me. i don't understand.

There are days when i open facebook and started reading new status updates, i found something like this.. "Aku mencintaimu kerana Allah" or "Sesunggguhnya aku mencintaimu kerana engkau mencintaiku kerana-Nya"

One question, do they really understand the real meaning of the phrase they just shared to the world on how they expressed their pure love??

If so, help me out.. because right now i don't think i can understand what that means. how can i love somebody (in this context loving a RIJAL) because of Allah? i wanted to, but how? by COUPLEing?? Naahh, strictly prohibited in Islam. thus i'm sure that's not the best way to love someone because of Allah. THEN HOW..??

Someone... or some people told me that i don't have feelings (translation: HANIS TAK ADE PERASAAN. org tackle pon wat dek). Actually, i do have feelings. I even have the desire to get married. but i don't think i have the ability to fall in love again. Can't remember when did that happened. But it did.

Lately, i heard a lot of people around me got married. Seniors.. Juniors.. Course-mate (sorg je baru), house-mate?? (lom lg). I felt envious! How do they get married when i don't even understand what does it mean by loving 'u' because of Allah.

Someone told me, "klu org baik, beragama, cukup iman di dada dtg approach, sebaik2nya jgn la tolak. Because u don't have reasons to". But if u don't know that person, then how do u know that person is baik, beragama, cukup iman di dada? oh my~ 0_O

Sometimes i wish i just can leave this all aside. didn't want to bother thinking. Just wait until somebody came knocking my front door asking my hand in marriage, then i'll just accept him as long as he is a good man. but in this era, would there be people knocking ur front door anymore?? tett! xkawen la alamatnya sampai tua. -.-' And do u really believe that u will love that person with all ur heart and because of Allah?? hmmm...

Couldn't help myself out. But i strongly believe being unmarried loving couple is not the best choice to take and go on saying "I love u bcoz of Allah". Over and over again people who truly loved u kept on telling u the same thing but how sad, we only believe in what we want to believe even if it's not true. If you're ready to fall in love, make sure it is when you're ready to 'built a Masjid'. Untill then u may go off saying,

I LOVE YOU BECAUSE OF ALLAH, INSYA-ALLAH

Something to share: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GybMTVGUkDo

p/s: written for self-reminder. To readers, no offense.