you're right Melly

hoyiiieaaaahhh!! sgt suke kupasan melly kali ni. sokong sgt3!!

amalina-peter: perempuan suka marah lelaki

admit it, mmg pmpuan suke marah2. tp bukan bermaksud klu die marah2 tu die xsyg, but what she wants is your ATTENTION! *ngada pmpuan ni. suke nakkan perhatian org. hahaha. especially from the ones she cared the most =)* it's her nature to act that way. so don't blame her but show ur love n support instead. show you care.

but to some guys they don't understand this n went on saying that girls always blame. but the truth is she just want you to listen n show you cared for her. if you do that, trust me, you'll get her love and care back. but if you do the other way round, she'll get more and more upset with you and her love for you fades away.

the thing about women, they don't like to be blamed and always need support. listen to her and talk nicely to her, she will gradually calm down and if she was wrong, she will by herself admit her wrong-doings. but if you go on scolding her, punishing her, she will repel you coz she thinks you push her aside and you don't care. she will gradually draws herself back and restrain herself from loving you.

so to guys, don't take it personally when women gets angry at you for no specific reason *(coz women always like to complain). but what you should do is to keep on supporting her all through her ups and downs. but if you get too emotional, she will be 9 TIMES more emo than you do.

perempuan kan dicipta dari tulang rusuk lelaki belah kiri. keadaannya membengkok. jika kamu cuba meluruskannya dengan menggunakan kekerasan, maka akan patahlah ia. tapi jika kamu tidak cuba untuk meluruskannya, maka sampai bila2 ia akan terus membengkok. jadi berhikmahlah dalam mengajar wanita-wanita kamu.

hope i won't get too emotional with my future husband. or else, he has to be someone that is very patient to take care of me. heee ^^

Last day of raya

yesterday i went to berhari raya at his parent's house. during dinner i accidentally tripped over a glass of orange juice onto his mother's lap!! Waaaa!!!!!!!
wut a clumsy me T_T

Tragedi jus oren mmg xkn dlupakn T_T

rindu akan ibadah umrah

Ya Allah adakah mungkin ada peluang utkku menunaikan ibadah umrah pada tahun hadapan? rindu untuk menjadi tetamu-Mu Ya Rabb. selapas mak abah lynn dapat panggilan haji, hati ku menjadi terlalu amat ingin juga menjadi tetamu-Mu. ingin benar rasanya utkku menjejakkan kaki di tanah Mekah. terlalu ingin melawat rumah-Mu Ya Allah. Mudah-mudahan aku juga berpeluang ke sana suatu hari nnt. insyaAllah... 

tropmed

Wahhh lame gak x update sweet potato ni ye. huhu. sorry sweetie, i don't have stories to update n quite not into blogging anymore. huhu. mungkin sbb da xberapa nk bersedih-sedih kot. coz i like blogging when i feel sad. hahah :D

Btw, last semester's result already out. guess wut... i need to repeat my tropical medicine paper. i got D for that with short of 2 marks below passing grade. =( very disappointed with myself. hmmm... nk menyesal skg pon da xada guna. bende da jadi. hhhhmmmm~ nvm, myb it's time for me to wake up from my sweet dreams and start putting more efforts on facing the challenges in the world of medicine. hehe

"apakah manusia mengira bahawa mereka akan dibiarkan hanya dengan mengatakan 'Kami telah beriman,' sedang mereka tidak diuji?"

so meaning ujian Tuhan itu perlu untuk menguji hamba-hambaNya. Allah menguji kita kerana Dia syg pada kita. lagi byk ujian Allah turunkn pd kita, lagi byk rahmat serta pertolongan yg Allah dtgkn bersama-samanya utk kita. jadi usah gusah atau bimbang bila ujian Allah itu dtg menimpa kita kerana pertolonganNya juga pasti ada utk kita. maka apb kita ditimpa musibah atau kesusahan marilah ucapkan, "Alhamdulillah, Thank You Allah krn mengasihiku" :)

gudluck dear, Robbuna Yusahhil ^_~

the past mistake

When i look back after what had happened, i guess he's not at fault after all. myb this was all my fault. i admit myb we did share the same feelings, the same affections towards each other but unfortunately we didn't have the intimacy, the congruence, the understanding btwn one another. it's like i talked the cat's language, but you replied in dog's. we barely speak the same thoughts. you felt A while i felt B. you hoped for A while i hoped for B.

And the very lesson i learned today, the Venusians needed to learn how to receive while the Martians needed to learn how to give. And that we should stop blaming and starts supporting and forgiving.

Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed 

while women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished. 

It's because we didn't understand the opposite gender that we tend to misunderstand and misinterpret the other partner. so let us starts to open our hearts to receive the love from the ones we love.

Im sorry for blaming you all this while. i hope you'll forgive me for that. and im sorry that i left. didn't mean to hurt you that way. but we can't change what had happened. i just hope we both can move on with our lives and hope you'll find a better person that understands you better than i do.

Hoping also i can can start brand-new with the choice i've made. hoping that i will learn how to receive the love he's giving. learn how to motivate him by delivering him the message, "i needed you" =)

Ya Allah, help me to let go of the past and cherish the future. aminn

sweet damon

comelnye damon. haha

my life and decisions

What's the key to success? Two words: good decisions. 
What's the key to good decisions? One word: experience. 
How do i get experience? Two words: bad decisions. 

The choice i've made, i hope it's the best. although sometimes it feels like unbelievable, but i believe in myself and i believe in Allah. i trust Him to give me the best in life and i will accept my destiny as it is.

Don't afraid to make a decision and be responsible for the decision you've made.

Sometimes we just can't make everyone happy. and we just cannot think that everyone will feel the same way as we do. as long as you believe what you're doing is right, than just go for it. ignore what others have to say about you. you are not them, and they are not you. sometimes people like to blame others for what they cannot do or get. but they forgot to look at themselves and ask themselves, "what have i done that makes this happen?"

Accept the things you cannot change, change the things you cannot accept. 
i hope that we can all teach ourselves to be a believer who can accept the facts in life.

kami syg suami dan ayah kami

‎"Aku terima nikahnya dgn si dia binti si ayah dia dengan mas kahwinnya RM..”

Bunyi macam senang? ini erti sebenarnya :

“Aku tanggung dosa-dosa si dia dari ibu bapanya, apa saja dosa yang dia buat, dari mendedah aurat hingga ke tinggalnya solat, aku tanggung dan bukan lagi ibu bapanya tanggung, dan aku tanggung semua dosa bakal anak-anak aku. Kalau gagal, maka aku fasik, dayus & aku rela masuk neraka dan malaikat Zabaniyah melibas aku hingga pecah badan aku”

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"Selangkah anak perempuan keluar dari rumah tanpa menutup aurat, maka selangkah juga ayahnya itu hampir ke Neraka. Selangkah seorang isteri keluar rumah tanpa menutup aurat, maka selangkah juga suaminya itu hampir ke Neraka.”

Apa makna sebenar cinta, kasih sayang pd ayah & suami sedangkan kita punca mereka terjerumus ke dalam neraka. Sanggupkah kita biarkan ayah yg banyak berkorban membesarkan kita juga suami yg kita kahwini ke NERAKA hanya kerana menanggung dosa2 kita?


Renung2kanlah.. and let us become a better daughter, a better wife and a better muslimah, insyaAllah :)

second step

Today, to me it was not like any usual annual raya celebration. this time this year, it was a bit different. i never thought it will be this fast. but on top of all, i thanked Allah for what He gave me. for the ease He provide me with. from the very beginning up till now, i always and never will stop praying to Allah.. "Ya Allah, if in Your knowledge that this matter that i am working on is the best for me in my religion, my livelihood, and for my life in the Hereafter, then make it easy for me. And if in Your knowledge that this matter is not good for me in my religion, my livelihood and my life in the Hereafter, then keep it away from me and take me away from it and choose what is good for me wherever it is and please me with it."

Alhamdulillah up till now, the matter went on smoothly, even i cannot imagine that i am now holding a big responsibility, holding someone's trust.. Ya Allah if this really meant for me, make it easy for me always. And guide me always in Your way. the only thing that im hoping for is Your redhaaa... Allah's redha is the only thing im searching for..

September 3rd 2011, 5 Syawal