Our first year, everything seems perfect. I called it the honeymoon year. Disagreement happens but will always choose to lose to the other as long as it makes you happy.
Our second to third year, we're getting to know each other more but will choose to see the flaws rather than goodness. Trying hard to change you to be more like me. And will get disappointments and resentments all the time. What we did were just trying to blame each other for things we couldn't change. Less trust, but more egos and self center.
Our fourth to fifth year, we know that everybody has flaws and we choose to aknowleged them instead of trying to fix. We try to cope with each other, talk better and disagree less. We start seeing good in each other too rather than finding impurities in our relationship.
In marriage, it is not always as beautiful as it seems. We have our odds but we choose to respect each other. Find goodness in every act of kindness. Let down our ego and try to understand each other better. Always support and help each other. Never leave and keep holding on to one another. That's what makes us stronger. It's being TOGETHER. And that TOGETHER won't happen over the night. So keep trusting US to walk this life journey together till Jannah, inshaAllah 😊
Five years in counting and to many more years together...
I love you forever, My Love ❤
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